VIDEO TRANSCRIPT
Benjamin Kreps:
Hey everyone, and welcome to the Mark Prater podcast where our aim is to connect our global family of Sovereign Grace churches with our executive director.
Mark, back a month and a half ago or so, we announced on the podcast that there are some changes coming, hopefully improvements, but definitely some different things on the horizon. And we are here, we are at one of those changes, one of those new things that we're trying on the podcast and that is soliciting questions from the audience and answers being given on the podcast to those questions. So we have a couple of questions from a couple of friends, a couple of pastors in Sovereign Grace. Remember, if you have any questions that you would like Mark to talk about on the podcast, go to markkprater.com and you can just fill out, very easily, fill out the form there and submit your question. We have some other questions in the hopper. It's not just for pastors by the way. So there'll be two pastors on this episode, but we've also gotten some from church members as well, which we're eager to hear from folks in our churches.
But today on our first Q and A, we have a couple of questions, and the first one is from our friend Riley Spring, Senior Pastor in Soveriegn Grace Church, Parramatta Australia near Sydney. And here's the question. Thanks for submitting the question, Riley. He says, thanks for the pod guys, keep it up. Here's this question. Will there be, or are there any resources that churches have made to go through our new catechism? We're going to read, he says through one question a week starting in February, but I'm wondering if there's more I should be doing to help get it into our people's hearts and minds. Yes, I know the New City Catechism has the kids' version. I've seen that. It is nice. Has anyone reduced our catechism for little kids as well?
So, Mark talk to us about how we might think about using the catechism in our churches. And is there a kids' version on the way?
Mark Prater:
Riley, thanks for the question. When I read it, I thought that's a good pastor because you want to get our catechism into people's hearts and minds, to use your language. So that echoes the heart, I think, of Sovereign Grace pastors, and again, I think Sovereign Grace pastors are just some of the best. So thank you for thinking that way about your church, Riley.
In terms of additional resources, we don't have anything developed at this point. I do know at Covenant Fellowship, we are intentionally leading the church through a question and answer per week and then calling the church to memorize it, to memorize the question and the answer. Doing our best to try to memorize the catechism as much as we can. And so obviously every Sunday morning until we get all the way through the catechism, which is 78 weeks, I believe it's 78 questions we will read. In fact, whoever's preaching that morning will read before they preach, the question and the answer. And it's not connected to the sermon, it's just reading it out loud together and then calling, reminding the church try to memorize the next one this week. So that's something to do. Now, we also decided to give one copy to every household in our church. So that would be another idea. If a pastor hasn't done that, you can order copies off of our website. Obviously there's a cost to those, we don't make any money on it, it's just to cover the expenses. And if you don't have the budget for that, you can download the PDF online and somehow distribute that in your church. So there's a free option, there's a cost option, and that's essentially what we're doing. The other thing that you could do during this time is to teach a separate class, like a Sunday morning class before your service starts, to just teach through the statement of faith and just remind folks of why this catechism is so important in a more teaching context, a didactic context.
One other thought is that I would encourage parents to be using this at home, and I would encourage parents or have pastors encourage parents to use the catechism at home. It's sort of a ready-made devotional for you. Look at the relevant scripture passages there. You can either find those in the catechism or you can go to our statement of faith and look for that section, the catechism speaking at too, and look at scripture so that you're connecting the catechism to the word of God. And that is sort of ready-made devotionals for someone 78 weeks in a row. That might help fathers or single parents think through, okay, what am I going to do for family devotions?
But now to get to his question about a kid's version, I'm not aware of any development of a kid's version at this point, but Riley, I'm going to submit that idea to our director of publishing Jared Mellinger, and we'll see if we can do that or not, which would probably be a pretty good amount of work, but it's an excellent idea. Can't promise, we'll deliver on it. But again, thank you for caring for your people. One other thing, if you are a pastor and listening to this and you're using the catechism in a specific way that I haven't mentioned that you found helpful, please let me know because I'd love to get the word out through this podcast.
Benjamin Kreps:
Excellent. Yeah, we have not really gotten into that utilizing it the way you guys are, but your example is compelling and it's getting me thinking. So hopefully that's helpful to everyone who's checking out the podcast as well. I mean, just a very small thing I saw recently, Redeeming Grace Church, Jeremy Hetrick leads that church at Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania. They're utilizing their Instagram with the catechism, so they're regularly posting questions and answers. And so another small way to get that in front of the folks in your church. So that's very helpful, Mark. So thank you Riley for the question. I too would love to see a children's version, but we'll see what happens there.
Second question is from our friend, Jeffrey Jo, Senior Pastor of Cross of Christ Salvation Gospel Ministries in Manila, Philippines. And he asked this question, and this, we'll probably spend a little more time on this one, "how do we keep discipleship in our home in the midst of this self-entitled generation?", Jeffrey asks.
Mark Prater:
It's a really good question. In fact, I emailed Jeffrey back and said, I think I understand what you mean. Tell me a little bit more about when you're referring to self-entitlement, what you mean? I haven't heard back from him, but I thought let's go ahead and take a stab at answering this question. And if I get more qualification from Jeffrey, we may hit this question again, but I think it's a very timely question and it links to the first question where the statement of faith can actually be helpful in doing your devotions at home, seeking to build a godly family as scripture calls fathers and single parents to do so. The statement of faith, I think, is at least a tool that can be used, but as I understand self-entitlement, it's really this exaggerated understanding or mindset of deservedness that I deserve things. Even some of the things that I haven't worked for, if that exists in your home and with your children or maybe your teens in particular, what you're up against as a parent, as you well know, Ben is a clash of worldviews.
Benjamin Kreps:
That's right.
Mark Prater:
Because a worldview that I deserve what I want, when I want it, I'm sort of in an immediate sort of sense and I'm not happy until I get it sort of self-entitlement that is very different than the Christian worldview. And so that's a part of what you're up against as a parent. And I think the place to start, even before I began to sort of lead through devotions, I would want to ask my child, my teens, some questions. You seem to have this mindset that you deserve these things. Just tell me a little bit about that. Why is that? What's affecting your thinking there? Because I think as you were saying, Ben, one of the things that parents face is this sort of constant bombardment of worldliness. Isn't that what you were talking about just a moment ago
Benjamin Kreps:
Before we started? Yeah. Galatians 4, Paul is warning Christians about now that they've been redeemed by Christ and saved out of this world system that's aligned against God, to not go back to the elementary principles of the world by which we were enslaved before Christ. And really he's just getting at this fact that we all, including our kids, are sort of born because of our fallenness, engage in a project to please ourselves and all sorts of things that the world is eager to press into our lives. And now our kids, I mean just the ubiquity of social media, smartphones and so forth, there's just a constant, an ocean of worldliness flowing into our kids. And it's really one of the things that's so important when it comes to discipling our kids and parenting our kids wisely, is being aware of the world, constantly encroaching into our kids', lives through a million different ways, and seeking not only just to police that, but to wisely help them process that because they're going to live in this world that's full of all of this stuff. And so helping them learn how to love Jesus, follow Jesus while facing an onslaught of constant worldliness that the world is just pouring into their lives, into all of our lives actually, is an important part of thinking about how to cycle our kids in this current generation. I mean, worldliness has always been a problem. Self-entitlement always been a problem going back to our father, Adam, but there are unique temptations and challenges in this current generation, even more so than maybe we faced those of us who are getting older when we were younger.
Mark Prater:
Right, right, exactly. Yeah. And I think in that, for parents that are facing that, the first overall thought is actually for them. If you're facing that and many parents are, and maybe grandparents are in our homes right now, I think for us it is an issue of faith. It is a faith in God himself, a faith in his power that can be at work in someone's life and faith in God's word that does transform. And that's the mindset a parent has to have in keeping devotions and believing that they will have an effect. I mean, you see it in Romans, for example. Paul lays out this eloquent theological treatment of the gospel in the first 11 chapters and chapter 12 verse 2, it sort of moves towards the imperatives in that sense. He says in chapter 12, "I appeal to you brothers, therefore brothers, by the mercies of God to present your bodies as a living sacrifice wholly and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship". And then verse 2, "Do not be conformed to this world". And that's what you're up against; somebody being conformed to this world, "but be transformed by the renewal of your mind that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."
And so how does the mind get renewed? We all need our minds renewed even as Christians, maybe people have been Christians for decades. We still have this ongoing need for our minds to be renewed. Some of the answer is found in those. I think in the first 11 chapters of Romans, there is gospel power that is presented in those chapters. Certainly that transformed a sinful heart to become more like Christ and certainly can transform a mind to think more like Christ. There is the wonderful Romans 8, the first 13 verses talk about the spirit's work in our battle against the flesh. And that can be very, very helpful. Do we have faith that God's spirit is at work in our lives and in our kids' lives to transform their hearts? Because it's a battle that we're not in alone. The spirit of God is with us to battle it. That gives parents hope. And then just the faith in the word of God overall just it is living and active. There's no other book like it.
And so I think if parents can have that heart and mindset, certainly faith that's going to help a lot in terms of how they approach helping their kids. But with the worldview, that's what you're up against. And that worldview of self-entitlement is really just so opposite to what Christ presents as his worldview. He left his glory. He gave up everything to come and be a living sacrifice on the cross for all of our sins so that we could be rescued from wrath and have eternal life. That's the gospel. But the way that he gave up his own rights in that sense without changing his deity at all, is a remarkable example. And then he calls us to pick up our cross and live like that daily because that is the kind of life that we find most fulfilling. We don't find fulfillment in the things that the world offers us and we think we're entitled to. Jesus was very clear. Those things will never satisfy. And that's what we got to help our kids to see what real life is about. What fulfillment in real life is about is a life of sacrifice. And as you do that, you experience a joy that the world will never be able to give you. And it's helping our kids to see that and to continue on in devotions.
One other thought and then you share any thoughts, Ben? I think if I'm leading in my home and I've got some kids who are self-entitled, I'm really asking the question, are they really Christians or are they not? Because if they're Christians, there's ways to disciple them. If they're not Christians, and they maybe even say that they think they are, but you're not certain, your whole strategy changes to one more of evangelism than discipleship because you want them to know Christ, because without that, they will never have their mind renewed and transformed apart from the grace of God.
Benjamin Kreps:
Amen. And as any parent knows who's raised children, I mean there's in some sense when kids are really little, while there are unique challenges with small children, essentially mom and dad just say, do this, don't do that. No. Yes, no. But as our kids are getting older and thinking for themselves, of course the strategy changes because we need to help our kids see the compelling beauty of Christ as superior to everything that this world offers.
But a wise parent understands your kid's getting 14, 15, 16, there's only a couple more years. And so helping them actually not just say yes and no, but being thoughtful in thinking about what the world is throwing at them. I mean, you were talking about that Romans 12 text, which is crucial. So I would say the same about 1 John 2, where the warning is do not love the world, the things of the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life is not from the Father, but is from the world. And so of course, this kind of entitlement, it's not new. I mean we have God's word thousands of years ago, same issues. But there are cultural challenges that I think parents need to grow in wisdom and discernment. And I'm sure lots of parents are doing a good job in that, but it's incumbent on us to seek to understand what are the temptations and challenges our kids are facing and then seek to guide them through that.
And certainly a big part of that is the world of technology. We live online, we live on social media apps so often and sometimes necessarily so. But in a world of social media influencers and materialism and consumerism and worldliness, that's just important to our kids' lives to help them understand the distinction between what you're talking about, the way of Christ and the way of this world. It's just massively important. And I hope our parents in Sovereign Grace churches are being thoughtful and having discernment and not just unthinkingly I mean to say to a teenager, we don't want you to have an iPhone or be on social media for your good. Well, that's going to be challenging. There's going to be pushback. And we have to help our kids walk through a world where they will appear peculiar because they're not just following a long lockstep with the way of the world. And so there's a number of fronts that we need to help our children with.
We're not just looking of course to raise our kids to be courteous citizens. We want to help them follow Jesus. And when they leave in a few years to continue to follow Jesus in a world that is so often opposed to him. And so, I mean, I think there's things that pastors can do to help as well, and I'm sure lots of our pastors are doing, but teaching into this world of technology, social media, smartphones, I think is important. We need to equip our parents. I think there's a real hunger from a lot of parents in our churches looking for help. They're looking to be equipped to help disciple their children in this modern era. And so we're wise as pastors to think about how can we do that? Is there a class we can teach? Maybe it's preaching through First John. I think preaching through the book of First John can be very helpful because first John's addressing so many of these issues. And then honing application, directing application at times toward helping our parents with their kids in this discipleship process can be really important as well.
Mark Prater:
Right? And parents may choose to allow their kids to have a phone. There can be good reasons for that. It's not a wrong thing to do, but that if you're making that decision, you have to be diligent to help your kids know how to use it and be aware of what they're being exposed to. So in light of that, I am going to do a spontaneous giveaway, Ben.
Alright, so this is our first giveaway. That was another thing that we mentioned. I didn't come into the podcast necessarily thinking I would do that, but if you submit another question, I'm looking for more questions to be submitted. Ben and I are going to choose one of those as a winner for this giveaway. So it's one of two books. And if you want to put in your question which book you prefer, they're both by Tony Reinke. The first is 12 Ways Your Phone Is Changing You. That's a little bit of an older book. And then the other one is God, Technology and the Christian Life. That's a newer book and a little longer treatment regarding technology and a broader treatment regarding technology. So I will send you as a gift, one of those books. The way that you get sort of entered into that possibility of getting a book is to submit another question. It could be a follow-up question to this podcast episode, or it could be a whole different topic.
Benjamin Kreps:
Excellent. Can I enter?
Mark Prater:
Yeah, sure. <Laughter>
Benjamin Kreps:
I like free books. Excellent. Yeah, we really do have the finest pastors in the world in Sovereign Grace as far as we're concerned. And so I'm sure there's even thoughts, follow up thoughts maybe potentially in that, that we could talk about in a future podcast.
But, thanks for the questions. Hopefully there was some helpful thoughts in there in response to those. We came into the podcast saying, Hey, excellent Qs, hopefully we have at least some average A's, so we'll continue to field those questions, keep submitting 'em, interested in a broad range of topics to be able to talk about so that we can seek to make a contribution to serving the folks in Sovereign Grace; pastors and members in our churches. And even beyond. If you're watching this and you're not a part of Sovereign Grace, you can submit your question too. And we just might answer, not exclusive to Sovereign Grace people. So anything else to add before we end, Mark?
Mark Prater:
No, I'm grateful for our family of churches that as we build relationally, we're really trying to help each other grow as disciples of Jesus Christ. And that's what these two questions that we chose today represent. It's a family trying to grow in Christ together. And that's one of the reasons I love being a part of our small family of churches.
Benjamin Kreps:
Amen. So thanks, Riley. Thanks Jeffrey Jo, I look forward to checking out more questions the days ahead and doing more episodes like this. Hopefully they serve. So thank you, Mark. Thank you all for checking out the podcast. We'll see you here, Lord willing, next week. Bye for now.